#Personal Transformation
Personal transformation is the ability to override and push pass obstacles.
Having that positive outlook stems from personal growth mindset and having the introspective that will help the individual to develop the strength that will help them to become the new version of themselves.
Being able to connect with your identity through reflection and observe the external environment which has the ability to influence good or bad and that will determine how the person evolve.
Through-out ones life, they may face obstacles, setbacks, defeat, or struggles, however, the reason for experiencing those element of discomfort is, there is something within all of us that is waiting to evolve; and the only way to bring it out is through pain.
Pain sometimes not always a bad sign; but can bring about positive result. Its just like a bird in its nest and when its time to fly the nest, it goes through a transition of difficult moments from its mother who s teaching it to fly, which can seems cruel but the aim is to teach that bird independence.
#Personal Transformation, the New Version of You#
This can be multi-dimensional, which is to bring about the result you desire and help you to arrive at the new you. As you transition through life and phases, your experience and stability that you have created for yourself, at times will be a challenge. However, if you stick to the process, it will bring you to a new way of thinking and enable you to reach a new dimension.
#Growth and Mindset
Going through the process, will determine and calls for a shift in ones mindset, and that has to do with how you think, and that will depend on how you emerge. This is, whether physical, emotional, or intellect, and even your behavioral responses to situation is important to determine the outcome and will help in understanding one-self.
Transitioning into who you become determines the need to adapt a new way of thinking, i.e. to set goals and objective and understand what success is. This will gives you a better understanding of oneself.
Maintaining a positive mindset has to do with how much the individual has grown, i.e. in his or her faculty, been able to differentiate when there is a need to change perspective to achieve a desired outcome. By doing that is helping you to become stronger and a better version of you.
#How I decided to change.
It was after a difficult encounter one day that a different perspective emerged within me—one about who I am and how I was going to discover that. So, I made the decision to walk away from the lifestyle of domestic abuse. It was not easy, but I told myself I had enough and wanted a change.
It was not easy for me to make the decision to walk away, but I told myself, "What am I gaining from allowing myself to be treated less than I deserve?" So, I had to embrace courage, dig deep in my spirit, and tell myself, "It's time to leave."
I did not know where I was going, and I know that was important, but I did not letting not knowing stop me from thinking I needed to leave.
I am not saying it was easy. It was a challenge to get to the place of accepting that I deserved better and taking actions, and that was not an easy choice to make.
It took me several years to identify and accept that I had a faulty mindset that contribute to what I was experiencing and that I needed to change and come to understand that I would have to do the work on myself to get to that place.
I had to do an internal assessment of the decisions I was making and why I was making those decisions. This is when I discovered that I was lacking self-values. So, I shifted my mindset and started to develop values, ensuring that whatever decisions I made were in alignment with what mattered to me. It was not easy, but whenever I am about to make certain decisions, I keep bringing myself back to my values and sticking to them.
Achieving a stage of success was not easy. I had to reach a point in my life where I started to focus on myself, and it was okay to become selfish, especially with the need to achieve. I had to come to terms with my life and embrace self-love, understanding that the choices I make determine if I truly love myself. I began to tell myself that I deserve better, and I owed it to myself to ensure I followed through with whatever I needed to do to make it happen. So, I had to identify what was causing me to constantly find myself in situations that were not beneficial for me, deviate from that destructive lifestyle, and embrace opportunities that would help me make wise choices. By doing that, I realized that I am living a satisfactory life.
#8 Ways to be more confident
Learn to celebrate you.
Be proud of small achievements.
Setting goals will give you something to look forward to and pave the way for greater achievements.
Creating a journal whereby you use it to keep track of what you need to do and what you have achieve.
Celebrate your victory, knowing that every accomplishment you have achieve helps to build your confidence.
Avoid looking at others and judging them, this will deflate the object you are trying to achieve.
Speak up, being confident is showing that you have something valuable to say.
Develop the art of listening, it gives you the opportunity to learn new things.
Share a moment when you have demonstrated confidence and did that feel
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